I went with the 55w for the headlight and 35w for the aux lights. I selected the 5000K color because that was the color that the 55 and 35 matched the best.
I got the e-code reflector at RallyLights. It is a Hella reflector, so the quality is good, and it ran me around $40 plus shipping. So, for a total of $150 I got HID for all three lights and a much better reflector for the headlight. Beats the heck out of the HD offerings. I have heard good things about all that I bought, but we will see how well the install goes. I have a bunch planned for once the fairing is off, so it might take me a while. Kind of hope it rains this weekend so that I am not looking at the sunlight outside while I can't ride the bike.