Just have to chime in on the free will while wearing bikini issue. I have a friend that just became a father of a beautiful little girl. One of his first comments was that he could no longer look at young women and enjoy them because he always thought of his daughter being looked at like that. I told him that it was almost a certainty that she would be looked at exactly like that one day, and if he wanted to have a grand child he better hope it happened.
Everyone has free will, and can make their own choices. These women know exactly what the men are looking at when they choose this job. Some are doing it because they like the attention. Some are doing it because they like the money. Some are doing it because they have daddy issues. And you better believe that most are doing it for a mix of those reasons and a thousand other reasons that you and I will never think up. They make a decision to be there, I enjoy looking at them even knowing I can not and would not every touch the, so I make a choice to look. My wife is aware I look, and she is also very aware that I still find her beautiful and at the end of the day I will be right there with her. If any of those things were not true than I would stop looking, and that includes my wife being at all upset about it because she is just not feeling pretty that particular day.
So follow the path that works for you, but try to enjoy ALL the scenery you can along the way. :bigsmiley18: