Well, you asked for opinions....I've bought/sold 8 bikes in the last 3 yeasr....she done good to walk away, it isn't even wotht $9K to me. I wouldn't pay over $8K, and beleive it or not, I doubt I would pay $8K. THere are ALOT of bikes out there for $9,000.00, way nicer than a stock softail.
I just posted about a bike I just bought 3 days ago.....2005 Softail Classic Springer,,,,oh yeah baby, SPRINGER !!! Talk about one cool looking, old school looking bike !!!! It has power comander, dyno, fishtail pipes ( don't know make ), quick release windshield, hard leather bags,handlebar speakers/amp for MP3, and 6,700 miles, and paid $10,000.00.
Watch Craigs List. If you were closer to me I'd find you a deal.
Good luck !