I purchased a tall boy seat for my '09 FLHR on ebay and it arrived today. Looking for others that purchased and installed. Can you tell me did your new seat come with a new grab strap between the passenger and driver positions. Pictures in HD book show one and I'm assuming I would not use the one that came with my stock seat. Of course, the one I purchased was advertised as new. Did not arrive with a grab strap. Did not receive any instructions either so I don't know if one is definitely to be included. I also thought I saw on this site previously the attachment of this grab strap is not straight forward but could not find instructions again. Thanks for your help.