Not sure if I'm the best to help you out here (I've been divorced for a few years...) anyway, this will take a bit of forethought and considerable attention to detail but how about:
Your wife: gets at least one full day of...whatever is her preference, riding her bike, going to the salon, shopping, hanging out with other friends, you should know, esp. after 30 years -- no matter what, toward the end of the day is a professional massage at an exquist spa
You: spend that time (day or so) completing as many of those things around the house that have been waiting to get done, just - well, consider that you now have 'a-round-to-it'. :newsmile04: You might go an extra step and leave small 'coupons' around in hiding places where she will find them in time - for things like, detailing her vehicle, doing the laundry, washing the dishes, a good back scratching, you get the idea, however leave time for cleaning up before dinner (look and smell your best) :newsmile098: :newsmile099: :newsmile065:
Dinner: :newsmile049: a wonderful candlelit dinner at home (if you can't cook, :newsmile014: be creative, it can be catered, etc) provide the right mood setting (music, :guitar table's appearance... - i.e. NO TV). You might want to make it kind of simple, you have dishes to do!!
After dinner: If it was a light dinner, you can try strawberries, chocolate...This might be when you surprise her (as if she wasn't already) with that gift :small3d036: Steve07 mentioned - what would she LIKE, not what does she NEED - nothing to do with anything she would consider a task around the house.
Finally: Well, I can't plan it all for you, plus, I don't want any edit marks from Glider or any other Moderator!! Just remember: Why did you marry her? :newsmile092: :bigsmiley9:
If you like the plan and still need pointers - PM or email me
By the way, Was this previously a Glider joke?
CatWoman :rider
